The best questions to ask your boyfriend

Quality time together should not only be about romantic relationships and what adults do; it should also be about making real connections through deep and fun conversations. You need to know what are the best questions to ask your boyfriend in order to achieve this.

Guys generally don’t talk as much as girls do, and you probably won’t get much from your man if you don’t ask the right questions. Of course, there are exceptions, as some guys are chatty and don’t need to be prodded to speak up and share.

If you know the best questions to ask, you can steer the conversation however you want and get helpful answers.

Read on for our full list of questions to ask your boyfriend. These questions will help you get to know him better and strengthen your relationship.

Remember: this is a date; keep it fun

It would be better if you didn’t look like “all in his face” when asking these questions. Learn to choose the right moments to ask specific questions and let the conversation flow naturally.

If you bombard him with questions that don’t fit the mood, you’ll likely get no answers or end up with half-truths. You also want him to be relaxed when you ask these questions, and ask them from a position of love without being vindictive or impulsive.

Now we have it, here are the best questions to ask your boyfriend.

Top 50 questions to ask your boyfriend

Serious questions to ask your boyfriend

1. At what age would you like to get married?

1. Am I the kind of woman you would like to marry?

1. Have you already cheated on your partner?

1. What are the important things that can keep you in a relationship?

1. Have you ever fought with a partner?

1. What is it that I do that you would like me to stop?

1. What can make you end a relationship?

1. Is there anyone you would be with if I wasn’t in the photo?

1. Would you still like to be together if we had to be in a long distance relationship?

1. What would you do if some of your family members didn’t love me?

1. How many children do you want to have?

1. What was your last relationship like?

1. Have you ever experienced love at first sight?

Personal/Deep Questions

1. Are you still in love with your ex?

1. Would you go back to your ex if the opportunity presented itself?

1. Why do you love Me?

1. Would you leave me if your family didn’t get along with me?

1. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

1. How do you feel about cohabitation before marriage?

1. Have you ever had a depressive disorder or been an addict?

1. How would you describe a healthy and happy relationship?

1. What is your parents’ relationship like?

1. What was your first impression of me?

1. What are your core values?

Interesting questions

1. What is your favorite school activity?

1. What is special about your best friend?

1. What is your favorite house party game?

1. How would you feel if your friends organized a birthday surprise for you?

1. If you could choose to be rich or famous, which would you choose?

1. What’s the weirdest reason an ex had to break up with you?

1. What’s the most embarrassing experience you can never forget?

1. What do you miss the most as a child?

1. What would you do with a million dollars?

1. Who is your celebrity?

1. What was your first kiss like?

1. What does your dream house look like?

1. What is your dream car?

1. What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told?

1. What one word would you use to describe yourself?

1. What is the craziest thing that has ever happened to you?

Important questions to ask before moving in together

1. Do you snore when you sleep?

1. Is this your first time living with someone outside of your family?

1. Do you like a clean, organized space, or do you just not care?

1. Do you mind pets in the house?

1. Do you prefer homemade food or do you dine out?

1. How often do your friends hang out at home?

1. Why do you want us to live together?

1. Do you have a household routine or do you prefer to live spontaneously?

Questions to ask before getting engaged

1. When are you planning to get married?

1. Where is the ideal place for you to start a family?

1. Are you ready to go to premarital counseling?

1. Do you mind signing a prenuptial agreement?

1. How can you say that I am the person you will spend your life with?

1. Do you prefer a housewife or a working woman?

1. Do you want to have children and how many?

1. What do you think about the adoption of children?

1. Would you like to have children immediately after marriage or in a few years?

random questions

1. Why do you think I chose to be with you?

1. Do you have secrets that I should know?

1. What do you think happens after we die?

1. Are there exes trying to get back with you?

1. What is the best thing you have ever done for someone that has not received recognition or recognition?

1. Who was your love as a child?

1. Has a girl ever asked you out on a date?

1. Can two people of the opposite sex be friends, nothing more?

1. Have you been romantically involved with someone much older than you?

1. How often do you go on vacation and what are your favorite places?

1. What’s on your wish list?

1. What annoys you the most?

1. What is your guilty pleasure?

1. What do you regret most in life?

1. What is your biggest fear?

1. What/was your favorite subject at school?

1. What is the biggest risk you have ever taken?

1. What is your favorite amusement park ride?

1. Who is your favorite fictional character?

1. What is your favorite sport?

1. What is your favorite TV show?

1. What is one of your favorite memories?

1. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?

Summarizing

Ask these questions with love and innocent curiosity, and you’ll get answers that lead to exciting conversations and stronger bonds. Remember to choose your moments and make sure your guy is comfortable to get the best results.

This post originally appeared on Hello sane.