What is a dead sale that someone is not a good person? I’ll go first, people who give double entender compliments. They will say something for example: “You are so confident for someone your size.” Someone on an online platform asked people about the traits they identify with bad people. Here are their opinions.
1. They can’t be wrong
One user admits that his narcissistic mother blamed him for everything when they were kids. She never took the blame for anything, and whenever she was called out, she responded with an “it’s not my fault” demeanor. They found it difficult to figure out how to counter this, which greatly affected them.
2. They say they are good
A good person should not declare that he is good. Another participant says that if someone describes themselves as being good or reasonable, they probably don’t have those traits.
If someone has to tell you about their positive qualities, this is a defense mechanism, especially when faced with their misbehavior. Their lousy behavior often doesn’t match the positive description they give themselves.
3. Success is a competition for them.
Another adds that it took them a while to realize that one of their friends they seemed to like was obnoxious. For a long time they could not understand what was missing in their relationship. She was incapable of being happy for them. Every time they shared their accomplishments, she remained silent. They had to disperse.
4. It’s all competition
One woman confesses that her mother has always made everything a competition. All of her sisters had an assigned role. He was smart, handsome and an artist. She got the smart part, which came with a lot of pressure.
If they started training, their mom would also start training, turning it into a competition. Whenever their friend got a higher score on an exam, their mom wanted to find out why. She will come up with a strategy to defeat them. It ruined them and added a lot of stress and anxiety to their lives.
5. Their apologies are narcissistic.
Apologizing is an art that everyone should learn. The respondent says that narcissistic apologies list other people’s problems without taking responsibility. Narcissists will hit you with the classic “I’m sorry you’re having trouble with my actions” rather than “I’m sorry I did something wrong.”
6. The world revolves around them
Another commenter reveals that when she was in her early 20s, she had a boyfriend who lived in her bedroom at their parents’ house. He refused to thank her parents for giving him shelter and food.
According to him, if he thanked, it would mean that he did not deserve such care. When a loved one unexpectedly passed away, the wake fell on her boyfriend’s birthday. They left to celebrate his birthday in Chile, and he spent the whole night talking about how he had a bad birthday.
7. They only call when necessary.
One admits that they had to turn off many people when they realized they only lend a helping hand when they need help. For example, someone who hadn’t spoken to them in five months called them and asked if they still had their truck because they needed to move something. Before that, they tried to communicate, but to no avail.
8. They are hardened liars
Some people don’t need to lie, but they do it anyway. The man states that his friend seemed to have a mental disorder that caused him to constantly lie. They think he thought he needed to impress people with his lies in order to keep the friendship going. Once he admitted that he achieved a lot in life because of lies and succeeded in this. They cut it off instantly.
9. Anyone who gossips
If someone is gossiping with you, chances are they are gossiping about you as well. According to many, you cannot trust people who share what other people tell them in confidence. This shows that you can only rely on their ability to keep things to themselves.
10. Their friendship is conditional
Finally, some people treat you well just because you serve a purpose. One explains that if a person treats you well but treats others unkindly, he is not a good person. When you stop being useful to them, their true self will emerge.
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